Tonight I spent over two hours FaceTiming my college roommates, who I consider to be my very best friends in the entire world. These women have been by my side for over ten years, and I never dreamt I could’ve found such kindred spirits among my counterparts. Their great example has paved the way for glorious other relationships in my adult life, and I’m so thankful we got to catch up as if no time had passed at all.
Having participated in several conversations today about difficult moments in our lives—both presently and previously—I paused to reflect on the power of authenticity. Not once did I question the other parties’ motivations or candor; we were all transparent because that’s what friends do.
But not everyone knows that, or at least, has been shown that. Today is Maundy Thursday, which frankly to me, is all about friendship. John 13:14-17 describes, “14 Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. 15 I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.16 Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. 17 Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.”
He then went on to offer his body and blood as living sacraments to all who love him, knowing full well these people he loved so dearly would betray him.
Upon reflection, I realize just now powerful humility is, not because we must be willing to clean our loved-ones of their impurities (both physical and emotional, of course). More than anything, it’s the acknowledgment that these people still love and accept you despite your transgressions. Being a follower of Christ not only means being willing to serve others but also being at peace with the fact that others might look to you despite your flaws. Holy friendship, what a beautiful thing.
Food for thought: what does true selfless service look like to you?
Rachel Fisher 